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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Should I file for bankruptcy before or after my divorce?]]></title>
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            <updated>2026-09-29T06:49:31Z</updated>
            <published>2026-09-29T06:49:31Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you are struggling with joint debt while considering divorce, you may wonder which case should come first. The timing can affect what happens to your debts, property and divorce proceedings. There is no single filing order that works for every New Jersey couple. Understanding how bankruptcy and divorce interact can help you decide when to file. How can bankruptcy…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2026/09/should-i-file-for-bankruptcy-before-or-after-my-divorce/"><![CDATA[If you are struggling with joint debt while considering divorce, you may wonder which case should come first. The timing can affect what happens to your debts, property and divorce proceedings.

There is no single filing order that works for every New Jersey couple. Understanding how bankruptcy and divorce interact can help you decide when to file.
<h2>How can bankruptcy affect your divorce?</h2>
<a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/bankruptcy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">Filing for bankruptcy</a> generally triggers an automatic stay, which stops most collection efforts. A divorce can still move forward, but this protection prevents the family court from distributing property included in the bankruptcy case unless the bankruptcy court allows it.

Bankruptcy also does not eliminate every divorce-related obligation. Child support and alimony are nondischargeable, meaning bankruptcy does not eliminate your responsibility to pay them. Certain debts from a divorce property settlement cannot be discharged in Chapter 7 but can be discharged after you complete a <a href="https://www.uscourts.gov/court-programs/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-basics/chapter-13-bankruptcy-basics" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">Chapter 13 repayment plan</a>.
<h2>When could a joint bankruptcy before divorce help?</h2>
While you are still married, you and your spouse can file a joint bankruptcy if you both qualify. If you file jointly and use federal bankruptcy exemptions, you and your spouse can generally double the available exemption amounts for property you both own.

Chapter 7 cases generally move more quickly, while a Chapter 13 repayment plan usually lasts three to five years.

A joint bankruptcy can address dischargeable joint debts in the same case. If only one spouse files, the other may remain responsible for a joint debt even if the filing spouse receives a discharge. Once your divorce is final, you can no longer file a joint bankruptcy together.
<h2>When might filing after divorce make sense?</h2>
A joint bankruptcy may not fit your circumstances if you and your spouse cannot cooperate or have significantly different financial situations. Completing the <a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">divorce process</a> first may also clarify which property belongs to each spouse and which financial obligations remain.

Chapter 7 uses a means test, which considers your income and certain expenses to determine whether you qualify. Changes in household income during a divorce may therefore affect eligibility.
<h2>Coordinating both cases can clarify your next steps</h2>
Bankruptcy and divorce can affect the same debts and property. Coordinating both cases may help you deal with marital debts that bankruptcy can eliminate before the divorce becomes final or determine whether waiting better fits your circumstances. An attorney familiar with bankruptcy and family law can explain how each filing may affect the other, helping you understand your options before choosing a timeline.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What are tax implications of property division in a New Jersey divorce?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=51346</id>
            <updated>2024-12-19T17:09:02Z</updated>
            <published>2024-12-19T17:06:19Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[While many spouses in Essex County and across New Jersey focus on the emotional aspects of a divorce, paying attention to the financial side is crucial for your future economic well-being. Understanding the tax implications of dividing property is essential, especially for high net worth spouses. Proper financial planning helps ensure a fair and equitable distribution while minimizing unforeseen tax…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/12/what-are-tax-implications-of-property-division-in-a-new-jersey-divorce/"><![CDATA[While many spouses in Essex County and across New Jersey focus on the emotional aspects of a divorce, paying attention to the financial side is crucial for your future economic well-being. Understanding the tax implications of dividing property is essential, especially for high net worth spouses.

Proper financial planning helps ensure a fair and equitable distribution while minimizing unforeseen tax burdens. Awareness of these implications can aid in making informed decisions during the divorce process.
<h2>How are assets divided?</h2>
New Jersey follows the equitable distribution model for dividing assets in a divorce. This means spouses divide their property fairly, though not necessarily equally, based on each party's contributions and needs.

Marital property consists of assets obtained during the marriage, whereas separate property pertains to assets owned individually before the marriage. It's important to note that some assets intended for one spouse can become marital property if used jointly or if their value appreciates.

For example, inheritances intended for one spouse are typically considered separate property, especially if received before the marriage. However, commingling inheritance with marital assets or using it for joint purposes can make it marital property. This means it could be subject to division during a divorce. It's important to keep inheritances separate to avoid division.

Understanding these distinctions can help in <a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/family-law/divorce/property-division/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">negotiating a fair settlement</a>.
<h2>Minimizing tax consequences after a divorce</h2>
Recognizing assets with <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/kristinmckenna/2023/03/27/financial-planning-for-a-divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">potentially significant tax consequences</a> is essential. Here are commonly divided assets and strategies to manage them:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Retirement accounts</strong>: Withdrawals from non-Roth retirement accounts are taxable. Consider a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) to split these accounts without penalty.</li>
 	<li><strong>Real estate</strong>: The sale of a marital home may qualify for a capital gains exclusion under certain conditions.</li>
 	<li><strong>Brokerage accounts</strong>: Long-term investments can be taxed at favorable capital gains rates. Review cost bases to minimize taxable gains.</li>
 	<li><strong>Cash assets</strong>: These have no tax implications, making them favorable for immediate liquidity needs.</li>
 	<li><strong>Stock o</strong><strong>ptions</strong>: These can be complex, with potential tax liabilities upon exercise or sale. Evaluate vesting schedules and consult with financial professionals.</li>
 	<li><strong>Businesses</strong>: Valuing and dividing business interests can be challenging, with tax implications for both parties.</li>
</ul>
Some couples may specify asset distribution in pre or postnuptial agreements to avoid or reduce tax repercussions. Others must be aware of the possible consequences. That’s why seeking guidance from an experienced New Jersey divorce lawyer can be crucial for identifying and avoiding these financial liabilities.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How can bankruptcy protect you from adverse actions?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=51342</id>
            <updated>2026-05-06T07:20:56Z</updated>
            <published>2024-11-20T21:05:09Z</published>
					<taxo:topics><![CDATA[bankruptcy law]]></taxo:topics>
            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Facing financial difficulties can be a daunting experience, especially when creditors begin taking adverse actions to recover debts. Filing for bankruptcy in New Jersey can offer people a way to reduce this stress as they get their finances back on track. How can bankruptcy protect people from adverse actions? 1. Bankruptcy can stop harassment from creditors. One of the immediate…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/11/how-can-bankruptcy-protect-you-from-adverse-actions/"><![CDATA[Facing financial difficulties can be a daunting experience, especially when creditors begin taking adverse actions to recover debts. Filing for bankruptcy in New Jersey can offer people a way to reduce this stress as they get their finances back on track. How can bankruptcy protect people from adverse actions?
<h2>1. Bankruptcy can stop harassment from creditors.</h2>
One of the immediate reliefs that bankruptcy offers is an <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/a/automaticstay.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">automatic stay</a>. This legal provision halts creditors from making direct contact with you or taking further collection actions. Whether you have experienced persistent phone calls, threatening letters or unwelcome home visits, the automatic stay puts a stop to them.
<h2>2. Bankruptcy can keep the utilities connected.</h2>
For many facing financial strain, the threat of utility disconnections is a real concern. If you’re at risk of having your electricity, water or gas cut off, filing for bankruptcy can provide <a href="https://www.debt.org/bankruptcy/automatic-stay/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">a temporary safeguard</a> against these actions.
<h2>3. Bankruptcy can keep people in their homes.</h2>
Home is where the heart is, and the threat of losing it can be emotionally and physically taxing. Bankruptcy can help protect your residence. For homeowners, filing can temporarily halt foreclosure processes, giving you time to catch up on overdue payments or restructure your mortgage. Renters also benefit, as bankruptcy can delay eviction proceedings initiated by landlords, offering a crucial window to find financial stability.
<h2>4. Bankruptcy can stop wage garnishment.</h2>
Wage garnishment — where creditors take a portion of your paycheck — can significantly impact your ability to manage daily expenses. By filing for bankruptcy, you can stop most garnishments. This protection ensures that you can use your full income to support yourself and your family during these challenging times, without the additional stress of reduced wages.
<h2>5. Bankruptcy can prevent repossession.</h2>
If you are behind on payments for your car or other important possessions, creditors may seek repossession. Filing for bankruptcy can halt this process, keeping essential assets in your hands. This is particularly important for maintaining employment, as having a vehicle is often necessary for commuting to work.

If you are considering filing for bankruptcy and want to know more about how it can protect you from adverse creditor actions, consider reaching out to a West Caldwell bankruptcy lawyer. They can help you understand the ways that bankruptcy can address the adverse actions creditors have taken against you.

Bankruptcy offers people in Essex County and beyond a way to take control of their finances, starting with the day they file. Understanding the protections bankruptcy provides can help you approach the bankruptcy process with greater confidence.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Minion &amp; Sherman</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How could bankruptcy impact your divorce?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=51343</id>
            <updated>2026-05-06T07:18:20Z</updated>
            <published>2024-11-19T21:08:01Z</published>
					<taxo:topics><![CDATA[automatic stay, bankruptcy]]></taxo:topics>
            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce and bankruptcy can both bring significant changes to your finances. When someone has to manage financial struggles and the end of their marriage at the same time, the decisions they make during this stressful time can be even more important. What should residents of Essex County and the rest of New Jersey know about bankruptcy and divorce? When financial…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/11/how-could-bankruptcy-impact-your-divorce/"><![CDATA[Divorce and bankruptcy can both bring significant changes to your finances. When someone has to manage financial struggles and the end of their marriage at the same time, the decisions they make during this stressful time can be even more important. What should residents of Essex County and the rest of New Jersey know about bankruptcy and divorce?
<h2>When financial struggles and family law collide</h2>
When one or both spouses file for bankruptcy in New Jersey during or after a divorce, several legal and financial considerations come into play.

In a divorce, dividing the couple’s assets between the spouses can be one of the most complex issues to resolve. When bankruptcy is involved, this already contentious process can become even more challenging. The <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/a/automaticstay.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">automatic stay</a> that halts collections could pause the process of dividing the couple’s property until after the courts finalize the bankruptcy.

Bankruptcy does not discharge obligations like <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-laws-by-state/new-jersey-bankruptcy-exemptions-and-law.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">spousal or child support</a>, and people must still pay these debts despite bankruptcy proceedings. However, the financial restructuring that occurs in bankruptcy might affect the ability to pay or receive these supports. For example, if the paying spouse files for bankruptcy, they might seek to adjust the support payments to reflect their restructured finances. This can mean that they pay less support as they work to pay off their debts.
<h2>The right representation is key</h2>
Given the complexities involved in handling both bankruptcy and divorce, it is crucial to have the right support. A family lawyer <a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/about/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">with experience in both areas of law</a> can provide crucial support and guidance, helping to secure a stable financial and personal future post-divorce. They can also use their knowledge of both legal processes to help you create a strategy that protects your interests and gives you a stronger foundation for the next chapter of your life.

The interplay between bankruptcy and divorce requires careful consideration and strategic planning. Understanding how  bankruptcy could impact your divorce can help you make informed decisions that protect your finances as you end your marriage.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can you keep cryptocurrency when filing bankruptcy?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/07/can-you-keep-cryptocurrency-when-filing-bankruptcy/" />
            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=51337</id>
            <updated>2024-07-01T18:23:06Z</updated>
            <published>2024-07-01T18:21:01Z</published>
					<taxo:topics><![CDATA[bankruptcy, bankruptcy filing]]></taxo:topics>
            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[In the United States, cryptocurrency is treated differently in bankruptcy cases, depending on various factors, including the type of bankruptcy being filed (e.g., Chapter 7, Chapter 13) and the specific circumstances of the case. One of the critical questions is whether cryptocurrency constitutes property of the estate. If the cryptocurrency is determined to be the property of the estate, the debtor-in-possession…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/07/can-you-keep-cryptocurrency-when-filing-bankruptcy/"><![CDATA[In the United States, cryptocurrency is treated differently in bankruptcy cases, depending on various factors, including the type of bankruptcy being filed (e.g., Chapter 7, Chapter 13) and the specific circumstances of the case.

One of the critical questions is whether cryptocurrency constitutes property of the estate. If the cryptocurrency is determined to be the property of the estate, the debtor-in-possession (DIP) could use it to pay off the debt. Another issue is cryptocurrency's fluctuating value, which can impact a bankruptcy case. For example, the DIP could argue that their cryptocurrency is a commodity and recover the cryptocurrency, which, by the end of the case, may be much more valuable than at the time of the transfer. Any gain accrued benefits the estate.

As with other assets, whether the DIP can keep the cryptocurrency depends upon the type of bankruptcy.
<h2>Chapter 7 bankruptcy likely means liquidation</h2>
In a Chapter 7 bankruptcy, the bankruptcy trustee liquidates non-exempt assets to pay off creditors. Cryptocurrency could be considered an asset. If any applicable exemptions do not cover the cryptocurrency, it likely <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/roomykhan/2024/06/29/valuing-crypto-assets-navigating-the-new-financial-frontier/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">needs to be accurately valued</a> and liquidated.
<h2>Chapter 13 may allow you to keep it</h2>
In a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, debtors create a repayment plan to repay creditors over three to five years. Debtors may be able to keep their assets, including cryptocurrency, as long as they can make the payments required under the plan. If they pay debts in cryptocurrency, the debtor will need to determine the cryptocurrency's value accurately when repaying creditors.
<h2>Each case’s details are different</h2>
The circumstances of each case are different, so it's essential to <a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/bankruptcy/" data-wpel-link="internal">consult with an experienced bankruptcy attorney</a> to understand what exemptions might be available in your specific situation under New Jersey bankruptcy law. It is advisable to consult with a qualified bankruptcy attorney who can provide guidance based on the specific details of your situation and the applicable laws.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What is parental alienation and are there legal implications?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=51284</id>
            <updated>2024-05-30T14:59:03Z</updated>
            <published>2024-05-16T19:23:42Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Parental alienation happens when one parent convinces a child to dislike or reject the other parent for no good reason. This can hurt the child’s feelings and affect the whole family. Understanding parental alienation is very important in custody cases, because it can change the judge’s decision. What is parental alienation? Parental alienation involves one parent constantly trying to make…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/05/what-is-parental-alienation-and-are-there-legal-implications/"><![CDATA[Parental alienation happens when one parent convinces a child to dislike or reject the other parent for no good reason. This can hurt the child's feelings and affect the whole family.

Understanding parental alienation is very important in custody cases, because it can change the judge's decision.
<h2>What is parental alienation?</h2>
<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/articles-heterodoxy/202208/the-truth-about-parental-alienation" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Parental alienation</a> involves one parent constantly trying to make the other parent look bad to the child. This might include talking poorly about the other parent in front of the child or keeping the child from seeing the other parent. Often, the child starts to fear or dislike the other parent without a real reason.
<h2>Are there legal implications of parental alienation?</h2>
Courts take this problem seriously because they want to do what is best for the child. If a judge thinks parental alienation is happening, it could affect who gets custody of the child. Judges might think that a parent causing alienation can't support a good relationship between the child and the other parent.
<h2>How do courts handle parental alienation?</h2>
Judges use information from experts like psychologists and sometimes a special lawyer for the child, called a guardian ad litem, to see if parental alienation is happening. If it is, the judge might change who the child lives with or how often they see each parent. In extreme cases, the parent causing the problem might be awarded less time with the child.
<h2>What can parents involved in parental alienation do?</h2>
If you think the other parent is turning your child against you, write down everything that happens that might show this. Conversely, parents accused of alienation should provide evidence of their positive relationship with their child and their support for the child's relationship with the other parent. Stay open and honest and work with the court.

Parental alienation is a serious issue that can influence <a href="https://www.minionsherman.com/family-law/divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">custody decisions</a>. Understanding the laws and getting the right help is very important for parents dealing with these tough situations.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How should you treat credit cards after bankruptcy?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=50493</id>
            <updated>2024-01-27T20:02:58Z</updated>
            <published>2024-01-27T20:02:58Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[After bankruptcy, the road to rebuilding credit can be both challenging and daunting. Among the many decisions to make, one question looms large. Should you treat credit cards differently post-bankruptcy? To learn more, you can explore the best practices for managing credit cards after facing financial hardship. Understanding the post-bankruptcy landscape After successfully navigating the complex process of bankruptcy, it…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2024/01/how-should-you-treat-credit-cards-after-bankruptcy/"><![CDATA[After bankruptcy, the road to rebuilding credit can be both challenging and daunting. Among the many decisions to make, one question looms large. Should you treat credit cards differently post-bankruptcy?

To learn more, you can explore the best practices for managing credit cards after facing financial hardship.
<h2>Understanding the post-bankruptcy landscape</h2>
After successfully navigating the complex process of bankruptcy, it is important to assess the financial terrain. Bankruptcy provides a fresh start, but it also requires a strategic approach to rebuilding credit. Credit cards, often considered both a lifeline and a potential source of problems, play a big role in this recovery process.
<h2>Choosing the right credit card</h2>
Not all credit cards are equal, and this holds especially true if you have a bankruptcy history. Opting for a secured credit card can be a prudent choice.

These cards require a security deposit but offer a controlled spending limit, minimizing the risk of accumulating unmanageable debt. You may want to select a card with reasonable fees and interest rates to ensure a smooth and cost-effective rebuilding process.
<h2>Managing credit responsibly</h2>
The key to successful credit card usage post-bankruptcy lies in responsible management. Timely payments are non-negotiable. Set up automatic payments to avoid missing due dates, preventing further damage to your credit score.

Maintaining a low credit utilization ratio demonstrates fiscal responsibility and positively influences creditworthiness. This means keeping balances well below the credit limit.
<h2>Building a positive credit history</h2>
Credit cards, when used wisely, serve as powerful tools for reconstructing credit history. Consistency is important.

Establish a routine of making on-time payments and gradually increase your credit limit as financial stability improves. Demonstrating responsible credit behavior over time will contribute positively to your credit report, showcasing your commitment to financial recovery.
<h2>Remaining cautious of temptations</h2>
While credit cards are important to rebuild credit, they also present the temptation to overspend and get that hit of <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-brain/201909/the-real-issue-instant-gratification" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">instant gratification</a>. Use these cards for emergencies only. Be mindful of the potential pitfalls of accumulating debt so that you protect the progress made on the path to financial recovery.

Navigating credit cards after bankruptcy requires a thoughtful and strategic approach. With the right mindset, individuals can leverage credit cards as effective tools for rebuilding their financial standing.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 ways to help your children through your divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=50491</id>
            <updated>2023-10-30T19:29:57Z</updated>
            <published>2023-10-30T19:29:57Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Going through a divorce can be tumultuous for both parents and their children. Children often experience disruptions to their living arrangements and routines. They may also feel a loss of security during the process. Fortunately, there are ways to prioritize the well-being of your children during your divorce. 1. Open and honest communication Maintaining unwavering and candid communication with your…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2023/10/5-ways-to-help-your-children-through-your-divorce/"><![CDATA[Going through a divorce can be tumultuous for both parents and their children. Children often experience disruptions to their living arrangements and routines. They may also feel a loss of security during the process.

Fortunately, there are ways to prioritize the well-being of your children during your divorce.
<h2>1. Open and honest communication</h2>
Maintaining unwavering and candid communication with your children is important. Be upfront about the divorce in a gentle and age-appropriate manner. Encourage them to ask questions and express their feelings. Reassure them that your love for them remains unwavering, and the divorce is not their fault.
<h2>2. Consistency and routine</h2>
Amid the upheaval of a divorce, children thrive on consistency and routine. Strive diligently to preserve equilibrium in their daily lives. Keep consistent schedules for meals, bedtime and school activities. This predictability can provide a sense of security during a tumultuous time.
<h2>3. Co-parenting cooperation</h2>
In the spirit of harmony, collaborate with your ex-spouse to establish consistent rules, expectations and disciplinary measures. Aim to present a united front in your parenting approach, even if you have differences. This consistency can help your children feel secure in both households.
<h2>4. Emotional support</h2>
Your children may experience a wide range of emotions, such as sadness, anger, confusion, anxiety or even happiness. For example, about <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/childrensmentalhealth/features/anxiety-depression-children.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">2.7 million children</a> in the United States have a diagnosis of depression, and the prevalence has gone up over time. Divorce can make a child's depression worse.

Be there to offer emotional support and comfort. Let your children know it is okay to feel these emotions and provide outlets for them to express themselves, such as talking to a trusted adult or therapist.
<h2>5. Reduced conflict</h2>
One of the most damaging things parents can do during a divorce is involve their children in conflicts or disagreements. Avoid speaking negatively about your ex-spouse in front of your children, and refrain from using them as messengers. Shield them from the adult aspects of the divorce and focus on maintaining a positive environment.

Your children's well-being should remain a top priority throughout the divorce. By providing a stable and loving environment, you can help your children adapt and thrive.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Minion &amp; Sherman</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 bankruptcies differ]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2023/07/how-chapter-7-and-chapter-13-bankruptcies-differ/" />
            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=50490</id>
            <updated>2023-07-27T00:45:35Z</updated>
            <published>2023-08-01T00:45:27Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[When your New Jersey finances start spiraling out of control due to medical debt, high-interest rates or other factors, you may feel overwhelmed. You may, too, be searching for a way to regain control over this area of your life and thinking about whether filing for bankruptcy might be the right call. If you do decide to move forward with…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2023/07/how-chapter-7-and-chapter-13-bankruptcies-differ/"><![CDATA[When your New Jersey finances start spiraling out of control due to medical debt, high-interest rates or other factors, you may feel overwhelmed. You may, too, be searching for a way to regain control over this area of your life and thinking about whether filing for bankruptcy might be the right call. If you do decide to move forward with filing for bankruptcy, you may do so through either a Chapter 7 or a Chapter 13 format.

Per Rocket Money, while Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 bankruptcies are both consumer bankruptcies, there are some <a href="https://www.rockethq.com/learn/personal-finances/different-types-of-bankruptcy" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">important differences</a> between the two types of filings.
<h2>Chapter 7 bankruptcies</h2>
You have to have limited income and pass a means test proving as much before you may file for Chapter 7. Sometimes called “liquidation” bankruptcies, Chapter 7 filings sometimes involve surrendering certain assets to pay back your debts. A Chapter 7 bankruptcy filing typically impacts your credit score for up to 10 years.
<h2>Chapter 13 bankruptcies</h2>
If you do not pass the means test needed to qualify for Chapter 7, or if you are fearful about potentially losing your home, you may want to consider filing for Chapter 13. Doing so involves restructuring your debts and coming up with a new payback plan that is more manageable for you. If you stick to the terms of the plan and do not miss mortgage payments, you may typically keep your home when filing for Chapter 13.

Whether filing for bankruptcy is the right move depends on several factors. If there is no reasonable way to pay back your outstanding debts within the next five years, bankruptcy may be well worth considering.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Minion &amp; Sherman</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can I get child support for my disabled adult child?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2023/04/can-i-get-child-support-for-my-disabled-adult-child/" />
            <id>https://www.minionsherman.com/?p=50218</id>
            <updated>2023-04-29T00:38:16Z</updated>
            <published>2023-04-29T00:38:16Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Child support provides basic necessities like food, shelter, medical care and education for growing children. Payments typically end when your child is grown and financially independent. However, not all children are able to become financially independent. A child with a disability may need your care and support after reaching adulthood. In this situation, you may be able to continue receiving…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.minionsherman.com/blog/2023/04/can-i-get-child-support-for-my-disabled-adult-child/"><![CDATA[Child support provides basic necessities like food, shelter, medical care and education for growing children. Payments typically end when your child is grown and financially independent.

However, not all children are able to become financially independent. A child with a disability may need your care and support after reaching adulthood. In this situation, you may be able to continue receiving financial support for your adult child.
<h2>Understanding the law</h2>
In New Jersey, child support generally ends when the child turns 19. Support may end sooner if the child dies, marries or enlists in the military. Child support might continue through the child's post-secondary education or until another date specified in the court order, but generally, a child support order can not extend beyond the child's 23rd birthday.

However, <a href="https://www.njcourts.gov/attorneys/rules-of-court/termination-child-support-obligations" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">New Jersey child support laws</a> allow some exceptions to this rule. A 2020 amendment to the law allows for the continuation of child support or conversion to another form of financial support after the child's 23rd birthday. The court will only allow this in special circumstances, such as a severe mental or physical disability.
<h2>Requesting continuation of support</h2>
If your child's disability requires him or her to be financially dependent on you, you might be able to continue receiving financial support from your child's other parent after your child turns 23.

Before your child support order ends, both parents will receive a notice in the mail. This notice should include instructions for filing a written request for continuation. Your child can also petition the court for financial maintenance from a parent if he or she is over 23. To qualify, your child's disability must have existed before he or she turned 23.

When caring for a dependent adult, it is important to know your rights and the resources available to you.]]></content>
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